2013 Review

Many blogs I read have done their little review of the year and I really enjoy reading them, so I'm going to give it a shot.  This is 2013 for Cody and I and the things that were most important to us!

JANUARY:

Cody and I had been engaged for 3 months and were full speed ahead in planning our wedding.  Heather moved into the apartment in Preston Hollow Apartments that we were going to live in after we were married.  Heather also graduated as a Registered Nurse and was hired on the Maternity unit at IMC.  Heather took her NCLEX on Jan. 31st and passed her first try!  Cody was going to school at the University of Utah for his bachelors degree in hopes to go on to law school.  He was starting applications for law schools all around the country.

My beautiful wedding ring!

FEBRUARY:

The month before the wedding!  Heather was busy getting used to her new job and planning for the wedding and Cody was still working hard in school.  This is the birthday month for our husky Koda!  She turned two years old.  Cody slowly started moving things into the apartment.

Koda

MARCH:

Cody and Heather got married!  We were married in the Salt Lake Temple on March 7th, 2013 at 9:40 a.m.  We had a lunch at Olive Garden and then a reception at Wheeler Farm that evening.  For our honeymoon we went on a Carribean cruise for seven days and then stayed longer in Puerto Rico afterwards!  We missed our cute vizsla's birthday while we were gone, Apollo turned one year old!  Cody finished moving into the apartment and we got used to married life.

Apollo

APRIL:

This is Heather's birthday month and she turned 23.  We also bought a new king size memory foam bed and cute bedframe!  Apollo likes to sleep on the bed with us and we were not having enough room!  Cody also got rear ended by a Murray cop this month and it pretty much totaled his car so we traded it in and got a 2013 Volkswagon Jetta!  Cody got accepted to law school and the University of Utah and at Arizona State University and we were started to weigh decisions on where he should go.

Our new bed!

The Jetta

Yep, rear ended by a COP.

MAY:

Cody graduated from the University of Utah with his Bachelors Degree in Political Science this month!  After much thought, we decided it was going to be the best thing for us to stay in Utah and Cody accepted his offer to start law school at the University of Utah.  With this decision came the idea of possibly buying a home!  Heather's mother bought a sweet poodle puppy this month.  Heather also got a little wild and died her hair with an ombre style (blonde at the ends). 

Cody's graduation day!

Meet Tootsie!

JUNE:

Cody's birthday month and he turned 25!  We also started an addicting habit of playing a lot of golf! We found a realtor we really like and spent ONE day looking at some houses until we found one we wanted to put on offer in on.  Turns out seven other people wanted the same house and the owner lived out of state and was very difficult to get into contact with.  Our realtors told us to hold tight while they worked hard for us.

Golfing on Cody's birthday with his new putter.

JULY:

We walked the Murray 4th of July parade TWICE.  Once because Heather's dad was a city council member and the second time because Heather's dad was also running for Mayor.  We learned our realtors really did work their magic and our offer on the house was accepted!  We bought our first home in Taylorsville, Utah.  It has four bedrooms and two bathrooms, a garage, a small backyard, a large kitchen, and a beautiful fireplace.  It's much nicer than we ever expected for our first home.  We moved into the home in the middle of July.  A week later, we went to Lake Tahoe for a family reunion with Heather's mother's side of the family for a week, but unfortunately Heather was sick a lot of the trip.  We still had a ton of fun though!

An awesome camel that was in the parade.

A picture of our backyard after the weeds got ripped up and new sod was layed.  Next project, that fence!

On the lake at Tahoe.

AUGUST:

We spent as much time outdoors this month as we could!  We spent a lot of time hiking to dog lake with our dogs! Cody had his first big welcoming to law school at the University of Utah where he took the lawyer's pledge.  He started his first semester of law school this month! Cody needed a computer for school so he adopted my laptop and we bought a new desktop computer!  We also needed more fridge space since our fridge was tiny so we bought a mini fridge that sits well hiding next to our big fridge.

We love Dog Lake!

Taking the pledge to be a good lawyer... or something like that.

New desktop :)

Yes, our drinks are SO healthy...

SEPTEMBER:

We had been married for six months this month!  Cody sent beautiful flowers to Heather's work.  We also went to a Utah football game this month.  The state fair was this month and we had a lot of fun at it!  Cody got a calling as the first couselor in the Young Men's!

One man band at the fair.

We really wanted this hot tub.

OCTOBER:

Heather also got a calling as the first couselor in the Young Women's this month!  We spend time with our kids going to activities and we even did a service project doing yard work on the temple grounds with the young men and women.  Cody had fall break from school this month and since Heather was having a hard time with how busy he had been with school, we took a little weekend vacation to Wolf Creek!

Some of Heather's young women.

After our service project.

Wolf Creek in the beautiful fall time!

Our new shoes we got just to play some serious raquetball in Wolf Creek.

NOVEMBER:

Heather convinced Cody to put the Christmas tree up this month and the house got decked out in Christmas decorations!  We spent Thanksgiving running between both sides of our families and ate way too much food but had a lot of fun seeing everyone!  Cody was working hard at school and was enjoying it.  He decided he wanted to even further his career and decided he wanted to pursue a joint degree and apply to business school at the U also.  He wrote a letter to the Dean of the business school giving an argument of why he shouldn't have to take the GMAT to apply to business school and the Dean accepted his arguement!

Our first Christmas tree!

DECEMBER:

Cody was in crunch time for finals.  He completed his first semester of law school!  He is still waiting for grades to be posted.  We spent a lot of time with family for Christmas and took advantage of Cody's winter break from school by going to they gym together a lot, laying around the house, and watching a ton of Breaking Bad.  Cody is working on applications to business school and is getting ready to start his second semester of law school!

Our first fire in our new house.

2013 could not have been a better year for Cody and I.  My life has changed so drastically since last year and I am very lucky to be living the life I am living now.  I'm so SO grateful for Cody and for the amazing husband he has been and continues to be.  He is by far the best decision I made in all of 2013 and every year before that!  2014 has some huge shoes to fill because 2013 was sure the best year of my life!  I will forever be grateful for this year and look forward to this next year with happiness and excitement for what's to come!

Christmas 2013

*Pictures to come*

Christmas this year was such a wonderful one!  It was our first Christmas as a married couple!  We had so much fun decorating our house, I was itching to get that Christmas tree up as soon as possible, but Cody didn't want it up too soon, so I talked him into allowing it to be put up the week of Thanksgiving. 

Christmas Eve Cody and I went to the gym together in the morning.  It's always a good way to start the day with a little run!  Then that evening we went to my Grandpa Stam's house.  It's been a tradition for so long, but this is only the second year without my Grandma.  She passed away right before Christmas last year.  My poor Grandpa still struggles with it daily and talks about her every time he talks to us.  It makes you wonder if she knew how much her REALLY loved her, his love is so deep for her, it's touching.  We spent the night there eating some good food, watching the great-grandchildren open gifts and my Aunt Renae read some Christmas stories.  Then the adults all play the white elephant gift game where you can steal others gifts.  We pick a letter each year and the gift has to start with that letter.  Last year we decided to spell out my grandma's name over the years which is Muriel.  So this year the letter was U.  The gifts Cody and I took to the game were a University of Utah drawstring bag and and Uncle Si blanket (from Duck Dynasty, our favorite show!).  The gifts we ended up leaving with were a small umbrella and the game Uno.  Let's just say, the game didn't work out in our favor this year.

Next, I unfortunately had to work Christmas from 1am to 7am, so when I got home Christmas morning I had to sleep a little bit.  I woke up around 11am to a happy and excited husband!  We went down and spent the morning opening some gifts and playing with our new items.  Somehow "Santa" even brought a few unexpected gifts for each of us, even though we both told Santa not to let that happen haha!  Our dogs also had a TON of fun ripping wrapping paper off of some yummy smelling dog treats we got them.

My big present this year was I got a new camera (Nikon D3500) and I love it!  Then Cody and I spent $10 at the dollar store on each other and we had so much fun!  He got me a few little games, a lint brush for the dog hair, a cute vinyl quote for the wall, and many more fun little items!  Then after we opened all our gifts, Cody found some more gifts "Santa" left, which was a book light I've been needing for a while, and an amazing electric blanket, which has already been used countless times since Christmas! 

Cody's big present this year was a Bushnell range finder for golf.  His dollar store gifts included some cologne, men's shampoo, leather cleaner for his car, air freshners, hot chocolate and a mug, an eye mask to sleep in, new pens, a tie, and a few other great things.  In Cody's stocking was hiding a little Gamestop giftcard for a new video game.  We also were lucky enough to received some shelving for our garage, a dutch cheese slicer, cute calendars, and tons more candy from our families...

That evening we went to Cody's Grandma and Grandpa Jowers house where we ate some dinner and opened some gifts from them.  We had fun playing with cousins and chasing our neices around the house.  Afterwards we went to Cody's sister Holly's new house to check it out for the first time, and it is beautiful!

We had such a great holiday season, I'm so grateful I have such an amazing family and in-law family.  I couldn't ask for more.  It was a perfect first Christmas being married to Cody and I look forward to many more years to come!   

Life As Lately

Today is Christmas Day!  So I'm on blogger why you ask?  I'm sitting here at work at 4am while my husband sleeps at home waiting for Santa to come.  Crappy, but it's the life of a nurse.

 

Life at the Jenkins house has been quite busy lately.  Work for me has been crazy, we never slow down.  But I can't complain about it though because it's really fortune to be able to work so much when I'm the only one working for the time being.  Cody has been so busy with school that it's just not possible for him to work right now.  He just finished his very first semester of law school!  He has to put a lot of work into finals and it seems like it just about killed him, but he made it through.  And even more than that, he's decided to apply to the University of Utah's business school also and seek out a joint degree doing business and law together.  So that adds on an extra year of schooling for him but has him finishing with two graduate degrees.  So he will be even more busy than he already is, but I think it's going to be the best thing for him and his job opportunities.

Another thing Cody and I have been very into lately is going to the gym together.  We both got gym passess to the Murray Rec Center and have started trying to go as much as possible.  I can't believe how hard it was at first and how much easier it is already getting.  I miss how in shape I used to be in high school when I was on the drill team.  When I go to the gym I like to start with running, which is getting easier now but was terrible to start out.  After I go into the weight room with Cody.  If you know me, the weight room always has been a scary place for me.  I don't know what to do, can't do very much, and feel completely out of place in every way.  But Cody has been so excited to help me and has been great about getting me started.  Now I can spend most of my gym time in there and look like I may know how to use a few pieces of equipment or weights.  But MAN, I am so sore!! It never ends.  My body is screaming after every single time I go.  But it feels good.  I never should have stopped working out in the first place.  

I've been a nurse for a year come January.  That is so crazy!  Time flies so fast!  I never thought I would be a long time post partum nurse personally, but I can't believe how much I really do love my job.  I still hate the night shifts with a passion, but I love what I do and I love the people I work with.  It's been such a great first year as a nurse.  I've had so many great days and many very scary ones.  But thanks to those very scary days, I feel so confident in my skills and everything I do in my job.  Put me on a med/surg floor, you might have a different story, but post partum and babies- I feel great!  I'm so lucky to have the job I have, I would never give it up for anything else! 

Well, I'll be posting better pictures soon because there is a beautiful new camera sitting under the Christmas tree for me at home right now!  I hope everyone has a great Christmas!   

My Girls

Get ready for autumn everyone!



Well, once again it's been a while since I've posted.  Really, I just hated the way the blog looked and so I didn't want to see it at all.  So I apologize for constantly changing the layout, but I think I'm satisfied for a little while now.  Life has been one busy whirlwind lately.  I'm pretty sure I still have a husband somewhere but I see him less now than when we were dating it feels like.  He started law school at this University of Utah in August and has been totally SWAMPED with homework since.  He will disappear down to our basement for the entire night just reading and writing.  So in turn, I have become even more lazy and gotten into even more TV shows, my latest addiction; New Girl.  Luckily, I bought a pass to a dance studio and hope to get back into doing that so that my butt doesn't become permanently implanted into our couch.

Cody and I have been going to our ward in our area now.  When we lived in our apartment we both really struggled getting the motivation and desire to wake up for church and I realize now that it's because we were so unattached to our ward that we just did not want to go.  No one cared we were there so it was tough to show up.  Our new ward however, is so completely opposite.  The first week we moved into our house we had visits from the bishop, relief society, and elder's quorum.  We also met another couple our age who moved in close by and had dinner with them! Not only that, but already we have callings.

Cody was called as the first counselor in the young men's.  And I was called as the first counselor in the young women's.  Cody seemed to be a little nervous about his calling, seeing as he never went to nor cared about young men's when he was the age of it.  But he will do fantastic, I don't think there's a better man for the job!  As for me, let's just say Cody got his calling before I did and I was bitter because I've always wanted to work with the young women.  The bishop must have known my heart's desire.  :)

I've already gone to some activities and gotten to know some of my YM girls.  And already I know this calling is going to be one I'll be very attached to.  Hearing stories of these girl's home lives and trials they've gone through is unbelievable to me.  These girls at 15 and 16 years old (which is my age group) have parents that don't want to go to church, so they, at this young age, pack up all of their siblings and walk them all to church and serve as the parent so that their siblings can make it to church each week.  Their testimonies are larger than life and it has shocked me.  Who know kids this age could have such unshaken faith like this?  The things these girls tolerate, the way they stand up for what they believe in to other kids at school who think differently, the way they aren't afraid to stand out as a member of the church and an example to everyone around them, it's truly touching.  Being around these women twice a week will be a life changing experience for me most of all.   



Random picture, but I found my long lost best friend!  She moved away and we hadn't seen each other for like 10 years until now!  So great to see her!

 

One activity I did with my YW was we went to Gardener Village to see the witches and Halloween decorations.  Everyone needs to go do this this month!  It's fabulous.







Good Mood Food

So, I've been trying to be a good wife by cooking some kind of variety of food for my husband.  It doesn't help my cause much that he came from a mother who cooked amazing food all of the time.  No pressure, right? I enjoy cooking, I just wouldn't say I was a master or anything.  So I've picked a few cook books I love and found a few Pinterest recipes and tried some good food.  Most turn out really pretty well.  There have been only a couple that I have absolutely hated.  Cody is so sweet though that he either really likes or pretends to like everything I try. 

I've tried lately to take pictures of most of the recipes I do try.  But that idea didn't start until a few weeks ago, so there are some really great meals I didn't get pictures of.  But, I will make them again and take pictures soon!  I also made a little dinner week board that I made little papers with meals on them so that way I can hang up during the week what I'm planning to make so Cody can see, and if I end up liking the meal, I keep the paper in a cute basket so I have more dinner ideas for later weeks.  Also, in an ideal world, I would like to make my own cook book of only recipes I like to make and I'd love to put the pictures I take in with the recipes. 

I was really worried this one wouldn't work out because I really love this soup.  But it actually turned out fantastic!  I know, soup during summer doesn't quite fit, but I love it too much.  This recipe is a definte keeper!

So I make this one totally homemade, crust and all.  But on this particular pizza I put WAY too much BBQ sauce.  It still tasted good, just a BBQ overload.  Next time, I'm definitely halfing the sauce.

This one is a crock pot recipe (always a bonus!).  The picture doesn't look extremely appealing but it was actually really good.  It has pizza sauce and pepperoni in it with lots of other good spices.  I will repeat this one for sure.

This one is one of my favorite recipes ever, and one my family requests me to make a lot.  It's easy, it's quick, and it tastes the best!

Once again, not an extremely appetizing picture.  And the whole "shredded" idea didn't quite happen.  Usually crock pots are the best at shredded meat so it may have been the roast I bought.  But it turned out tasting pretty good regardless.  My husband requested it again.

So Cody and I always order the steak burrito or salad when we go to Cafe Rio, so I wanted to make a similar burrito.  The steak was easy to do.  And shopping in the hispanic foods section of Walmart is where I got most of my ingredients.  I also added some lime to the rice and it made it even better.



One of my only recipes I totally hated.  This is supposed to be Cracker Barrel Chicken and Dumplings.  Not only does the chicken in my picture look deathly, but the dumplings were mushy and terrible.  I will NEVER make this again.  Chicken and dumplings, yes.  Just not this ridiculous recipe.  Highly disappointed Pinterest.

Finally, An Update

Okay, so it's been a while.  But, we were moving into our new home this past week PLUS we don't have internet yet, so I'm off the hook.  Can I just say, our house is incredible!! First of all, having a place for the dogs to run around where we don't have to worry that the lights on the apartment below us are going to fall off their ceiling if our dog jumps one more time, is the best thing ever.  They can run and play all they want and no one cares.  Plus they finally have a backyard to play in!  Ah, so great. 

Koda didn't do so well at first moving, she get SUPER nervous and was sick the first night.  But after a little Pepto Bismol and she was feeling better.  Both of our dogs have spend the entire week sniffing down every corner of the house, but they both are finally starting to feel comfortable.

Our first night in the home, our swamp cooler went out.  Oh, the luck of being home owners, right?  But my wonderful husband was so good at buying the parts and going on the roof and spent hours fixing the darn thing!  We would be the happiest people in the world to someday get central air.  But we will see if we have the money for that, ever.  The rest of the house has been pretty good to us.  It's just the unpacking part that we are trying to figure out.  The house looks great right now, but one of our bedrooms is designated as the "don't know where to put this stuff yet" room and I hate that.

My ex-missionary/boyfriend got married this week.  That's super odd.  It's weird to me how fast people can change.  Getting married is such a huge decision.  For me, it was a long and painful process to know the decision I was making was the right one.  I struggled for so long learning how to move on from the ex-missionary, something that was so comfortable and known, to something unplanned and almost scary even though I knew Cody was a better fit for me, my personality, my life, and my heart.  I knew regardless though, it was going to be hard to not have that long term person in my life anymore.  And I still have weak moments now and again.  Is it just me that holds on to things subconsciously for so long?  Not love maybe, but presence at least.  Heck, it took me 5 years before I stopped periodically having dreams about my first love when I was 16.  It always seems like dreams are the place that either take you right to the place you are longing to be, or right to the place you are trying to get away from.  For me, it's usually the second.  But that's because I'm a worrier and that's evident in my dreaming.  Good thing I have an amazing husband that is so attentive to all my needs and worries, even when he doesn't realize it.  I know you can be happy with lots of different people in life, but I think I'm one of the extra super lucky ones who found their only soul mate.  Sappy, maybe.  But you'd understand if you could see into my heart.

Now, for pictures.  I will update with pictures of our put together house soon, but for now enjoy totally random pictures of the last few weeks of our lives.  Oh, and I found this new picture app that I'm kind of obsessed with so don't mind the over excitement of picture decorating...

My dogs are either passed out asleep or crazy hyper psychos.  There is no in between.

They don't like to hold still for pictures.

My cute dad is running for Mayor of Murray.  For the 4th parade, we walked for him.  Then found this camel afterwards.  Awesome.

All our dogs do is chase bugs.  Seriously though, they are freaks about it.

My ring is still so perfect and I love it so much!

I guess Dunkin Donuts is new here or something? So we went for part of our date night.  And I'm still a bigger Krispy Kreme fan.

I know I post pictures of my dogs too much, but they are my children.  We have beautiful children.

Okay really, Cody uses his data way too much. 

One of the best parts of summer.  However, I would rather be at bed at 6am instead of about to finish my work shift.

This is shocking really, Koda never lets anyone cuddle or touch her, especially when she's sleeping.  She just really loves Apollo.



More beautiful skies.



I love these summer trees, however I call them allergy trees because the blossoms on them are trying to kill me.